Sunday, July 13, 2014

July 11, 2014

XUAN'EN, HUBEI

Today we flew from Guangzhou to Enshi, Hubei. We connected through Wuhan, Hubei. Wuhan is the provincial capital and it’s where we first met Xixi. We didn’t include it on our itinerary, but now Xixi can cross it off the list of cities to visit (even it was just the airport).

We arrived in Enshi to a small airport and were the only plane at any of the three gates. At least we had jet service to the city. We were surprised to be met at the airport by four members of Xixi’s orphanage staff. They had a huge bouquet of flowers for her and rushed in to give her hugs and to welcome her. Xixi was genuinely moved and thrilled to be greeted so warmly. Dawn and I are so happy for her and this experience. Once again…way more than we expected.

Xixi with the directors of her orphanage.
The orphanage director drove us the 1.5 hours from Enshi to Xuan’en, Xixi’s home city. The ride was breathtaking. We have traveled from the sea to the mountains…and we’ve left the pollution of southern China behind us. The route took us over a winding mountain road passed tree filled valleys, winding rivers, terraced hillsides with tea plantations and small farms. It was so beautiful. For Dawn and me, it reminded us of our travels through Sichuan before we were parents. Xixi looked out the van during the drive, taking it all in.

China is changing so rapidly, when Xixi and her friends from this orphanage were adopted in 2004, it was a 23 hour van ride for the staff to drive the girls to Wuhan. 10 years later you can make the same trip via a 1 hour flight, 4 hour bullet train ride and soon to be, a 6 hour trip on a new super highway.

We arrived in Xuan’en and checked into our hotel. Xuan’en is a quaint Hubei mountain town along a river with steep ranges on each side. We are so impressed by how beautiful it is and how friendly the people are. The town is very small. Imagine a town twice the size of Leavenworth, WA, remove the Bavarian theme and replace it with an authentic Chinese vibe…it would be Xuan’en.

Xuan'en
After getting settled we went for a walk through the local fields and hillside, before going into town. We were rewarded by being invited into one of the familie’s homes, where, via our guide, we swapped stories of life in the USA and asked questions about their life in China. They were unbelievably hospitable and we stayed for almost an hour talking with them. It was good for all of us to spend time this way and helped bond us to this place even more.

We had some serious Sichuan hot pot for dinner tonight. The guide was reluctant to dine there as he didn’t trust that we could take the heat. We forced the issue and had another wonderful meal. Xixi was in her element and relished the spicy pepper corns that infused the hot pot broth. She can now add quail egg, duck feet, beef tendon and flat tofu to her growing list of culinary conquests. She ate as much spicy hot pot as the guide and me and she has earned a lot of respect along the way. To our friends that adopted from Xuan’en, you were in our thoughts a lot today. We saw the faces of your daughters in the local residents.   It is so clear that our girls are from here. Like for Jing in Shanwei, the resemblance of our girls to these people is remarkable. Today at dinner, there was a family sitting across from us with a two-year old daughter. It was like seeing Xixi as a toddler when we first met here in Wuhan.

During our walk home from the restaurant we stopped by the public square where many of the residents were out enjoying the cooler night air. Groups were dancing in unison to western pop songs, roller skating and just hanging out and talking as families and friends.   Xixi jumped right in and joined a hundred or so local women in a synchronized dance. She was so happy learning the steps and following along. There was no silliness in it. There wasn’t a moment of awkwardness or embarrassment. She looked so content, like she was home.

Tomorrow it’s off to her orphanage and a full day there. She’s anxious to see her special care-giver whom she remembers through our photos of her. She will get to play with children her age that were here with her before she was adopted, interact with the younger kids and have lunch with the full group and then we’ll visit her finding spot. Like in Shanwei, I’m sure it will prove to be emotional and meaningful for all of us.

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